Ah Po
I dun like to keep things, especially issues like this. I know they dun wan me to announce all these pains but I think everyone has the right to know. Ah-Po is our 'bao'.
I was quite heart broken yesterday. Ah Po's heart pain has caused her to weep very bitterly. We almost sent her to the hospital, but judging her situation(she wasn't sweating, nor anything), it seems quite useless to send her there. Cuz' there's nothing much the doctor would do. Why? Cuz' they'll most probably let her lay there, giving her the necessary medicine. Not like they'll do someting significant to reduce her pain. Dad juz continously rubbed her chest, telling her to relax. I could only hold her hands, caress her forehead & hair. She was crying & bittering why she had to suffer these, might as well let her 'go'...I believe she was in great pain & the same time, upset about her life, everything. We had no choice but to gave her medicine to eat despite the fact she juz taken. Dad lifted her up & let her laid her his shoulders, at the same time, patting her back, while Ita fed her the medicine. After a while, she began burping. Not one but quite a long of burps. I was surprised to see Ah Po burped like tat. Anyway, after sometime of 'sayanging', Dad laid her down to rest. We continued to rub her chest, trying to ease her pain. Slowly slowly, she looked tired & on the edge of sleeping. Obviously, her pain lessen or was gone...after the burps. I think, her heart pain was cuz' of indigestion! U see, her digestion system might not be working very well at her age, hence if she ate a lot, she might have 'wind' in her...indirectly causing her heart pain. That's what I guess. Ita said she gave her little rice n veggies, it's Ah-Po who went to add more! Haiz. I know we can't keep the food from her, else she'll complain we ill-treat her, not letting her eat. Haiz.
Anyway, do u know how agony it is, to see her suffer in pain, while u can't do anything about it? My heart was broken. I can only chant for her from now on. Please pray & chant for her, visit her more often, talk to her. Distract her from her troubling heart. Please do whatever you can. Please. She's juz too used to us now. :'(
I was quite heart broken yesterday. Ah Po's heart pain has caused her to weep very bitterly. We almost sent her to the hospital, but judging her situation(she wasn't sweating, nor anything), it seems quite useless to send her there. Cuz' there's nothing much the doctor would do. Why? Cuz' they'll most probably let her lay there, giving her the necessary medicine. Not like they'll do someting significant to reduce her pain. Dad juz continously rubbed her chest, telling her to relax. I could only hold her hands, caress her forehead & hair. She was crying & bittering why she had to suffer these, might as well let her 'go'...I believe she was in great pain & the same time, upset about her life, everything. We had no choice but to gave her medicine to eat despite the fact she juz taken. Dad lifted her up & let her laid her his shoulders, at the same time, patting her back, while Ita fed her the medicine. After a while, she began burping. Not one but quite a long of burps. I was surprised to see Ah Po burped like tat. Anyway, after sometime of 'sayanging', Dad laid her down to rest. We continued to rub her chest, trying to ease her pain. Slowly slowly, she looked tired & on the edge of sleeping. Obviously, her pain lessen or was gone...after the burps. I think, her heart pain was cuz' of indigestion! U see, her digestion system might not be working very well at her age, hence if she ate a lot, she might have 'wind' in her...indirectly causing her heart pain. That's what I guess. Ita said she gave her little rice n veggies, it's Ah-Po who went to add more! Haiz. I know we can't keep the food from her, else she'll complain we ill-treat her, not letting her eat. Haiz.
Anyway, do u know how agony it is, to see her suffer in pain, while u can't do anything about it? My heart was broken. I can only chant for her from now on. Please pray & chant for her, visit her more often, talk to her. Distract her from her troubling heart. Please do whatever you can. Please. She's juz too used to us now. :'(
posted by JuzJaz at 8/18/2005 09:53:00 AM
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7 Comments:
The indigestion sounds like what pregnant women experienced leh. Maybe give her small frequent meals instead of one big meal at one time. Maybe ah po digestive system very slow now being old. If we eat too full in one sitting, will have heartburn. COs it takes longer to digest food.Hope she gets well soon.
Tat's what i told them, can eat little but more meals. But as i said, if she dun let her eat what she wants, she'll think u ill-treat her! seriously! & oso, she kept telling us she wanna go over ur place to stay! U know, something like wanna sleep at elder's son place. Cuz' i suspect she thinks we dun care/love her. But ur mom said no. *shrugs* We juz feel that let her stay a few days she will come back wan lah..juz give her what she wans la, u get wat i mean? if auntie can't cook for her, Ita will cook & bring over. Only ask Hanchao to sacrifice & sleep floor lor.
My mum said ah po just throwing tantrums lar.
throwing tantrums means she wan attention, our attention not enuff for her to consume, so she wans attention from ur side lah..then mayb its cuz she never stay with uncle before, tats y she wanna go stay..at least while she's alive..something like ta? she very determined ok to sleep at ur place ah. haa..we see how lor. if she really everyday 'niam, niam, niam' then bo pian..after all, we become kid when we're old..
but sometimes pple throw tantrums doesn't mean what they say mah. Just wana threaten u guys to treat her better n get attention mah. Sometimes unreasonable gf do this kinda stuff also. haha.
Hi
Your Ah Po will be very happy that you care for her !!!
Keep writing and letting me how is she.
I will be praying for her.
Yue Ming's Gu Gu
Haha..her 'appetite' is too huge to satisfy! How come u know about this blog???
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